Relationships · 3-page PDF · 15-25 minutes
Separate the issue, the facts, the request, and the next agreement.
What this workbook helps you do
Choose a time and setting where the conversation can happen calmly. Describe a specific event and its effect rather than assigning motives. Ask a clear question and listen to the answer before deciding the next step. If a situation feels unsafe, seek support instead of treating a worksheet as a reason to confront someone.
A practice example
A missed ride caused a student to be late. Rather than saying "you never care," he explains which ride was missed and asks how both people can confirm plans next time.
Inside the download
- A short explanation and a worked example.
- Five specific questions with room to write.
- Four action checkpoints and a review page.
Designed for young men, families, and mentors. Print it or write your answers in a separate notebook. Bring the questions to a conversation; you do not need to share the completed worksheet with us.
Start with these questions
- What specific event or behavior needs discussion?
- What do you know directly, and what are you assuming?
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